The results
Mostly A’s — Busy, but still choosing you. Busy people who like you still pick a day. He does — so the delays are logistics, not a message. You can relax into this one.
Mostly B’s — He’s future faking. The trips and the someday plans are real to him in the moment. They just never get a date. Judge the calendar, not the daydream.
Mostly C’s — You’re the backup plan. You get the evenings that fell through. It isn’t about your worth — it’s where you sit in his week, and that doesn’t move on its own.
Mostly D’s — He’s keeping you separate. Plenty of time with you, none of it where anyone can see. Ask to meet one friend. How he handles that small ask tells you the rest.