Was It Casual

Stop overthinking.
Know what to send.

39 situations, decoded. What it usually means, what it doesn't mean, the one tell that separates them — and three things you could actually send.

Tell me when it's out

Launching on iPhone and Android shortly. Every read on this page is free to read right now — scroll down.

Why it's different

All 39 reads are free, and they live inside the app — no screenshot to upload, no signal needed, no waiting. Open it at 1am and the answer is already there.

When none of them is quite your situation, describe yours and get a read written for it. That part uses AI — but not the way the others do. It starts from the same 39 reads you can see on this page and adapts one to your details, so you get the same voice and the same refusal to catastrophise every time, instead of whatever a general-purpose chatbot feels like saying today.

Every situation

💬 Texting
🌀 Talking stage
🎭 Mixed signals
🫧 My own spiral
🪞 Asking for more
🍂 Endings

Launching on iPhone and Android shortly. Every read on this page is free to read right now — scroll down.

Was It Casual is for reflection, not therapy or professional advice.