The results
Mostly A’s — He’s genuinely all in. Fast, but it’s made of real things: plans, people, follow-through. Enthusiasm that adjusts when you push back is the whole test, and his adjusts. Let yourself enjoy it.
Mostly B’s — This is love bombing. The intensity isn’t about you, it’s about speed — and speed stops you checking. Decline one more small thing this week. Genuine keenness adapts. This will sulk, escalate, or punish you for it.
Mostly C’s — You’re the rebound. He’s filling a shape someone else left. That can still feel like love from the inside. Give it one month with no grand gestures and see what’s actually there when the noise stops.
Mostly D’s — Big words, no logistics. Count how many of the futures he’s described have produced a single concrete action. Not a date — an action. If it’s zero, stop weighing the words and start weighing the calendar.