Was It Casual
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He watches my stories but doesn't text

What it usually means

Story watching is the lowest-cost form of attention that exists. It means he's keeping you in peripheral vision. That's real, but it is not pursuit, and treating it as pursuit is how you end up waiting for months on someone who is doing nothing.

What it doesn't mean

It's not a secret signal and it's not him working up to something. It's a thumb.

The one tell

Attention that costs nothing tells you nothing. Only look at what costs him something: time, plans, a question.

What you could send

Secure

“(nothing — let it be. this one doesn't need a reply.)”

Playful

“loyal viewer. do you want a loyalty card or a coffee”

Direct

“you're around but not really here. want to actually catch up or shall i leave it?”

Is this actually your situation?

The read above is the general one. Describe what actually happened and I will tell you whether this is the right page — and what the paid decode would do with your details.

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