The results
Mostly A’s — Early, not hidden. Three weeks in, nobody has met anybody — that’s just early. Watch whether the circle widens over the next month. Movement is the signal, not speed.
Mostly B’s — You’re a secret. Being kept off-grid isn’t privacy, it’s concealment. Ask him straight who in his life knows about you. His answer, not his tone, is the information you need.
Mostly C’s — He does this to everyone. He keeps everyone at that distance, which makes this less about you and more about how he does closeness. Fine — if he’ll talk about it. Ask whether he ever lets people in.
Mostly D’s — Kept undefined on purpose. Nothing has opened since month one because opening it makes this real. Don’t ask what you are. Ask what he wants. That one is much harder to dodge.