The results
Mostly A’s — Private, not hiding you. He isn’t a poster and his friends know your name. That’s the part that counts. Judge this on who has met you offline, not on a grid you can refresh at midnight.
Mostly B’s — Keeping himself on the market. A feed curated to look single is a choice, and it gets made again every week. Watch the rhythm: contact that arrives right as you’re about to drift is the tell.
Mostly C’s — You’re a secret. You exist in his life but not in the version other people get to see. Ask whether anyone in his world knows you exist — not introduced, just mentioned once.
Mostly D’s — He’s posting for her. The posting isn’t aimed at you and you can feel the heat in it. Ask whether anything in how he treats you has changed since she came back onto the radar.