The results
Mostly A’s — You let it be easy. Nothing to fix here. The clearest green flag isn’t a gesture, it’s that you feel more like yourself after seeing him, not less. Keep checking that one and you’ll rarely be wrong about anyone.
Mostly B’s — You wait for the catch. Calm feels suspicious when you’ve been trained by chaos. Don’t force the trust — just watch what he does over the next month. Consistency is the only proof and it only shows up in time.
Mostly C’s — You test it for cracks. Setting a test he doesn’t know he’s sitting is asking without asking. Name what you want first. If the honest answer is ‘I want him to notice me’, that’s a sentence you could simply say to him.
Mostly D’s — You mistake calm for boring. Check whether you enjoy his company or the relief when the difficult ones reply. If nothing about him bothers you and nothing moves you either, give it a few more real dates before you decide.