The results
Mostly A’s — You can name it. You know what you want and you can say it in one line. That’s the advantage. Now watch what he does with a clear ask — that’s the test, not your wording.
Mostly B’s — You answer with his answer. Mirroring his answer keeps you safe and keeps you invisible. Pick one small thing this week and state a preference out loud, just to prove the sky stays up.
Mostly C’s — Easygoing, then resentful. ‘Anywhere’ is fine until it arrives later as ‘you never’. Say the small want at the time — resentment is just a want that waited too long to be spoken.
Mostly D’s — You don’t know yet. Not knowing is allowed. Just check which it is: do you enjoy his company, or the relief when he replies? One is him. The other is the absence of panic.