Your friends see the version of him you describe when you're upset, and they see your face when you talk about him. That's a partial view, and it's also the only outside view you have. They're not always right — but you're the one with the most reason to be wrong.
It doesn't mean they're jealous. That's the first explanation the mind reaches for and it's almost never the true one.
Notice whether you've started editing what you tell them. Editing is the real signal, and it's about you, not him.
“(this one's a conversation with your friend, not him. ask what specifically worries them.)”
“(if you're already drafting a defence, that's the answer.)”
“i want you to meet my friends properly. it matters to me.”
The read above is the general one. Describe what actually happened and I will tell you whether this is the right page — and what the paid decode would do with your details.
Your words are sent to our server and to Claude — the AI behind Tess — which writes the read. Not stored, not linked to you. How this works
Every situation and every quiz on this site is free. Tess’s reads — written around your own words, not everyone’s — are the paid part. iPhone and Android to follow.
Was It Casual is for reflection, not therapy or professional advice.