Normal: fancying other people and doing nothing about it. Going a day without much to say. Finding him slightly annoying. Not feeling butterflies constantly. Needing time alone. Having the same small argument more than once. Almost everything you're worried is a sign is just what two people being close looks like.
Not normal: fear, being made to doubt your own memory, having to earn basic kindness back.
Ask whether it's uncomfortable or unsafe. Those are completely different questions and anxiety blurs them.
“can i check something with you? i've been wondering if i'm overthinking this.”
“quick vibe check on us, no wrong answers”
“i want to talk about something that's been sitting with me.”
The read above is the general one. Describe what actually happened and I will tell you whether this is the right page — and what the paid decode would do with your details.
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Was It Casual is for reflection, not therapy or professional advice.