Social behaviour is the lowest-quality evidence about a relationship that exists, and it's the most available, which is a terrible combination. A like is a thumb movement. You are trying to read a relationship in the least informative data you have access to.
Feeling it doesn't make you insecure or controlling. Acting on it as though it were evidence is where it goes wrong.
Ask whether anything in how he treats you has changed. If the answer is no, the feeling is real and the conclusion isn't.
“i've been a bit in my head about social media stuff. it's mine to manage but i wanted to say it out loud.”
“the algorithm is doing me no favours today”
“i felt weird about something i saw. can i just ask you about it directly?”
The read above is the general one. Describe what actually happened and I will tell you whether this is the right page — and what the paid decode would do with your details.
Your words are sent to our server and to Claude — the AI behind Tess — which writes the read. Not stored, not linked to you. How this works
Every situation and every quiz on this site is free. Tess’s reads — written around your own words, not everyone’s — are the paid part. iPhone and Android to follow.
Was It Casual is for reflection, not therapy or professional advice.