The results
Mostly A’s — Always awake for him. Has he ever started something before 6pm that wasn’t logistics? If the honest answer is no, you already know the shape of this. Stop being available at midnight for a month and watch what he does with daytime.
Mostly B’s — You take what’s offered. The hollow bit afterwards is the actual answer and it comes back every time. Would you be impressed if a friend described this arrangement to you? That’s the test, and it never gets it wrong.
Mostly C’s — You answer in daylight. You keep your own hours, so his messages fit into your life instead of running it. Keep it exactly there. If he wants more of you, he knows where daytime is.
Mostly D’s — You asked him what this is. You asked the harder question, which most people never do. Now notice what came back. A plan is an answer, ‘let’s see how it goes’ is also an answer — believe the one with a date in it.