'We should do something sometime' is not a plan, it's a mood. People who want to see you propose a day. Vagueness that survives more than two rounds isn't shyness, it's a soft no that's hoping you'll do the work of hearing it.
It's not necessarily that he doesn't like you. It may be that he likes you at exactly the level of effort he is currently making, and no more.
Offer one specific day. A yes-or-no question can't be answered vaguely. What comes back tells you everything.
“i'm free thursday or sunday — either work?”
“'sometime' has been on the calendar for three weeks. thursday?”
“i'd rather make an actual plan than keep saying sometime. are you up for that?”
The read above is the general one. Describe what actually happened and I will tell you whether this is the right page — and what the paid decode would do with your details.
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