The results
Mostly A’s — You offer another day. You do the one thing that actually produces information: a specific day is a yes-or-no question and it can’t be answered vaguely. What comes back after the second offer is your answer.
Mostly B’s — You say it’s fine when it isn’t. ‘Totally fine’ is a lie you tell to keep the peace, and he believes it. Notice whether you say yes because you want to, or because no feels dangerous — only the second one is the problem.
Mostly C’s — You read it as the ending. A cancelled Thursday isn’t a verdict, but your head treats it like one. Ask what a fourth reread of his message would tell you. Nothing, every time. That’s the moment to put it down.
Mostly D’s — You pull back to match him. Matching his distance feels like dignity, but it’s a message he may never receive. Name what you want first: ‘I want him to plan something and mean it’ is a sentence you can actually say.