The results
Mostly A’s — He came back and explained. He explained the absence without being asked, which means he’s already thought about it. That’s the closest thing to a real second chance. Watch the next month for whether the account matches the behaviour.
Mostly B’s — He’s rotating you back in. The timing is the tell: he arrives the week you stop waiting and goes quiet the moment you’re back. That’s maintenance, not missing you. Ask for one specific plan and watch what comes back.
Mostly C’s — He wants company, not you. He came back for company at night, not for you in daylight. Nothing he’s offered since costs him anything. If you want more than this, say it plainly now rather than in six more weeks.
Mostly D’s — Same loop, same gap. Check whether the cold stretches are getting shorter. Shrinking retreats are someone learning. Identical ones are a loop, and you’re on round three. The gap between returns is the information.