The results
Mostly A’s — He’s actually over her. He can talk about her without heat and without a villain, which means one day he’ll be able to talk about you that way too. Quietly one of the best signs there is.
Mostly B’s — Every ex was crazy. Every ex being crazy is a story about him, not about them. Notice whether you’ve started softening how you say things to him. That edit is the thing to watch.
Mostly C’s — He’s still in it with her. He’s telling her something through you and you can feel the temperature of it. Ask whether anything in how he treats you has shifted since she came back up.
Mostly D’s — His past is sealed off. A sealed past can be privacy, or it can be a closed door with you on the outside. Ask one plain question about it. His reaction tells you which one this is.